Authenticity
When I was in high school, an older student informed me that the goal of a prep was not to be "cool," but "smooth." I'm not sure what he meant by that (and I doubt he totally was either), but smoothness makes me think of sprezzatura. Sprezzatura was a concept invented by Baldasare Castiglione in his "Book of the Courtier" to describe doing something in an apparently effortless way. It wasn't important that it actually be effortless; it just needed to appear that way. Castiglione's book was the most famous of many from the 16th century that offered advice to would-be courtiers. In an age of absolutist rulers, the quickest way to advance was to be impress the ruler in person. This was very different in substance from the ideas of ataraxia and patience that ancient authors had espoused; it wasn't a general approach to life, but rather a specific way of getting ahead. Nevertheless, it wasn't entirely new (of course); there had alway...